Thursday, November 10, 2011

NOV 10th

WELL TODAY IS A VERY SPECIAL DAY!........IF YOU READ FACEBOOK YOU MIGHT ALREADY KNOW THAT ITS OUR GRANDSON'S 16TH BIRTHDAY.........................SO IN TRUE GAB FASHION:


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR TJ
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOOOOOOOOOO YOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUU
and many more!!!!!

I REMEMBER IT LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY.......DAUGHTER AND SON - IN- LAW AND I WERE IN THE HOSPITAL ROOM WAITING. THEY SOON TOOK OUR DAUGHTER DOWN TO PREP HER AND THEY TOOK OUR SON-IN-LAW TO GET READY TO GO IN AND BE WITH HER WHILE I WAS GONNA WAIT IN THE ROOM FOR HUBBY AND THEN WE WOULD WAIT TOGETHER FOR OUR NEW GRANDSON.
WELL SON-IN-LAW CAME BACK TO THE ROOM ALL DRESSED TO GO IN AND WE TALKED WHILE WE WAITED FOR THE NURSE TO COME BACK. SOON THE NURSE CAME BY TO TELL US THERE WERE SOME PROBLEMS AND SHE WOULD COME GET SON-IN-LAW AS SOON AS EVERYTHING WAS FIGURED OUT. PRETTY SOON HUBBY CAME WALKING INTO THE ROOM WITH A BIG SHIT ASS GRIN ON HIS FACE. HE ASKED US IF WE'D SEEN THE BABY YET? WE SAID NO THEY TOLD US THERE WAS COMPLICATIONS AND THEY WOULD BE BACK LATER FOR SON-IN-LAW. HUBBY SAID WELL HE WALKED PAST THE NURSERY AND THEY WERE CLEANING HIM UP AND HE GOT TO HOLD HIM ALREADY. SON-IN-LAW WENT RACING OUT THE DOOR TO SEE HIS SON. HUBBY AND I TALKED AND SOON THEY BROUGHT BACK OUR DAUGHTER. SHE SAID HAVE YOU SEEN HIM YET? I SAID NO BUT DAD HAS ALREADY HELD HIM. SHE THEN TOLD US THEY HAD TO DO A CESAREAN AND THAT HE WAS HUGH. IN FACT SO HUGH THEY HAD NO "BABY" CLOTHES BIG ENOUGH FOR HIM. THEY ENDED UP GOING TO PEDS AND GETTING HIM A PINK SWEATER FOR HIM TO WEAR. HE WEIGHED 10LBS 12.5 OZS.
LOL MY OLDEST SON HAD BEEN 9LBS 1 OZ. SO SHE TOPPED ME!!!!
SO TODAY OUR 16 YEAR OLD GRANDSON STANDS AT ABOUT 6' 3" TALL AND ABOUT 320 LBS. HE JUST KEPT GROWING.

another thing about today is an old childhood girlfriend had been let out of jail on this day. She had gone to jail for killing one of her own kids. she had 4 but her third born just got on her nerves and one day she went to far and ended up killing her 1 yr old daughter. She claimed the baby was evil and the voices in her head told her to get rid of it. She first started out slapping the baby in the face then she slugged her. she shook her then put her into the tub full of water, and just walked away. They did find out that she herself was brain damaged so she got a short sentence. Her other children were put into foster homes and she spent a short time in the hospital then jail.
She never got the kids back and for a long time she couldn't get in touch with them either. They discovered to late there had been other problems starting with her oldest but for some reason child protection dropped the ball. in the end they had concluded 1 she never should have been allowed to have kids. 2nd why wasn't the courts notified about her brain damage from her mothers car accident? her mom should have been charged for it as she was 1 driving drunk 2 driving with no license.
the doctors had noted in her charts that she should not have children because she barely had the mentality of a 8 yr old herself. her mother had to tell her what to wear when to wash her hair etc right up till the day she passed away. But for some reason they didn't protect her from having children and she ended up having 4. I had been her best friend right up till she had her third child which all of a sudden she was telling me my hubby was the father of that baby. OH MAN Mr. Gab and I had some bad fights cause I wasn't sure who was telling me the truth. Then one day she slipped and told me the dad was someone she met at a bar. Then of course when she had baby 4 she also accused Mr Gab of being the father again. By this time I had learned of the car accident she was in with her mom and that she had brain damage. So I just stopped calling her. She called me the day the baby died to tell me she had gotten rid of the baby from hell. I asked what she meant and she hung up so I called the police where she lived. Of course it was too late for the baby. One of the worst memories I have. I have talked to her a couple of times in the last couple of years but she has proved to me nothing has really changed she still thinks it was ok for her to get rid of the baby from hell as she still calls her daughter. She told me they wouldn't even let her go to the funeral for the baby. ????? really????? I asked her once if she remembered the babys name and she said yes baby from hell. Poor Michelle. I have cried over this alot as I remember us sitting at my house talking about when we grew up and had children how we would raise them what we would do different than our parents you know the stuff all kids say. But things happen and I guess we have no control over that but I am mad......Mad at the doctors who should'va taken the step to make sure she didnt have children after that accident. then no one would have had to suffer.